The correct approach to teaching someone, be it a dog, a child, or a coworker, is to use more honey than vinegar, is it not?
We are taught to positively reinforce rather than negatively reinforce actions, correct?
For an example of the power of positive reinforcement watch this educational clip:
Very Educational Clip
Now that we've settled that, let's get to the heart of the issue.
Recently there has been a great deal of news involving police, the actions of police, and the public image of police. With the events of Ferguson and the death of Eric Garner, there has been a lot of positive and negative activism. I propose a new course of action that can prevent many future problems, restore a positive image of the police force, and be fun for everyone.
I propose that all police stations take a certain percentage of the money brought in from fines and use it for positive reinforcement of good behavior of citizens.
Think about it.
You're driving along the freeway and you are actually going the speed limit. All the other cars seem to be zipping past you and going 'with the flow of traffic'. Then you see lights flash behind you, but they aren't the normal lights of a police cruiser, rather they are less harsh, and a friendly and exciting jingle is playing over loudspeakers. You get a better look in your mirror and it is indeed a police cruiser that is hailing you to pull over. You come to a stop on the side of the road and the trooper comes to your window. He asks, "Ma'am/sir, do you know why I pulled you over today?"
"I'm not too sure" you reply.
"I'm here to reward you for being an outstanding citizen!"
The officer then hands you a $20 dollar bill and you drive off with a smile on your face.
If we had this sort of system don't you think more people would want to drive the speed limit? They would want to obey laws? They would want to pick up trash off the sidewalk on their leisurely stroll in the afternoon?
"How would we ensure they aren't just giving the money to white or privileged people?" you ask.
That is an excellent question.
If the police were required to give the percentage of money earned off fines and they were required to only give it back to the areas those fines were taken then the problem would balance itself out. If they had to reward drivers on a free way a set percentage of the fines earned, then the freeways with the highest rate of infractions would also be the freeways with the highest rate and/or magnitude of reward. The neighborhood with the highest crime rate would also be the neighborhood with the highest opportunity for reward. The neighborhood with the low crime rate would have a low amount of reward, but that neighborhood doesn't really need this system.
With this system the money would go to where it is needed most and build positive reinforcement in the places that need the greatest behavioral change. In those neighborhoods, where there often is tension with the police, there would be a positive image of the police rewarding good citizens.
The system would be self-sustaining and would automatically focus on problem areas. It would reward positive behavioral changes. Lastly, it would reinforce a positive image of the men-in-blue whose job it is to keep us safe.
Let's make a change!
#LetsMakeAChange
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If you are on the police force, think about this. Give it some serious thought. Perhaps even bring this idea or a similar and plausible idea to the powers-that-be.
Random Musings
My blogs will mostly be few and far between, I am a Mathematics major, not an English major. My blogs will be anything I wish for them to be.
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Monday, April 16, 2012
How Can I Help
"How can I help," I aspire to say these four words as often as I can, I want to be characterized as being a servant. Growing up within the Church I have volunteered for many things, some by choice and others by being "voluntold." Because of this I have a passion to be a servant. Why would I want to be a servant, it makes no sense right? I feel it makes perfect sense when I look to who Jesus was and is today. In his incarnate life, Jesus did one main thing, he served people, his whole ministry was built around it and in his being today he is still serving us as the perfect high priest. He has sent the Holy Spirit whose job is to serve us and help us grow into the people God has created, who we would be if there was no sin within us. I also know that for my acts of service I have a reward in heaven which the concept is above my mental grasp.
This last weekend I was in my great friends Brian and Trinity Neilson's wedding. I drove 14 hours there and back, served them for a weekend and, as with all wedding, it was an expensive trip. I will be completely honest in that, before the trip, I was kinda dreading it a bit, I knew it was going to be expensive and it's very hard to skip classes and lose a whole weekend of time this close to the end of the year, not to mention I missed Evening. I had, as some would say, a bad attitude and I knew it. Thankfully as the trip began, God opened my eyes to the joy that this wedding was and I had a great time and regret nothing and wish for nothing different.
After the wedding God gave me a realization: the reward of service, besides the temporarily-intangible one in heaven, is one of the most valuable rewards ever, the reward is a growth in relationship. In serving my friends I grew even more in my relationship with them, at the very least in my own heart. I noticed this and looked back to other times I have served and they have almost always led to a growth in relationship. This got me thinking, what characterizes service? Is it not just a compilation of the fruits of the Spirit? Loving, having joy, having peace, being patient, being kind, doing good things, having faith in others, having a gentle attitude, and having the control over yourself to make it not about yourself. These are the things that make up service and love should be the greatest piece. The fruit of the spirit, through me expressed mainly in being a servant, result in a growth in a relationship.
I heard a story once of a married couple who had all but given up on their relationship and in a last ditch effort went to see her pastor. She expressed her pain and told the pastor how she wished for their to be some way other than divorce. The pastor told her to take one month and commit herself to serving her husband in every way she could, and then see how the relationship went. The wife went back and served her husband for in every way she could. After a month she came back to the pastor overjoyed, his proposal had fixed their marriage. I am not sure if the story itself is true but I know that the principle behind it is.
So the question is who do you want to grow in relationship with? Sadly I don't have enough time to serve every single person I meet, though I strive to, but for the sake of not wearing myself out physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially I need to be deliberate on who I serve. As an RA I serve the guys on my floor. I serve my friends, I hope to one day serve my wife, but most importantly I need to serve Jesus. I need to ask Him what he wants me to do to help. Don't misunderstand, Jesus does not need my help, but he lets me help so that it is a two-way relationship (not just me being served) and so that there is growth in our relationship. I challenge you, and myself, who is it that you wish to have a better relationship with? Who is your enemy right now? Serve them and look to see the growth in relationship, it's not an instant reward it takes time but it is worth it and we all need to be reminded of that from time to time.
This last weekend I was in my great friends Brian and Trinity Neilson's wedding. I drove 14 hours there and back, served them for a weekend and, as with all wedding, it was an expensive trip. I will be completely honest in that, before the trip, I was kinda dreading it a bit, I knew it was going to be expensive and it's very hard to skip classes and lose a whole weekend of time this close to the end of the year, not to mention I missed Evening. I had, as some would say, a bad attitude and I knew it. Thankfully as the trip began, God opened my eyes to the joy that this wedding was and I had a great time and regret nothing and wish for nothing different.
After the wedding God gave me a realization: the reward of service, besides the temporarily-intangible one in heaven, is one of the most valuable rewards ever, the reward is a growth in relationship. In serving my friends I grew even more in my relationship with them, at the very least in my own heart. I noticed this and looked back to other times I have served and they have almost always led to a growth in relationship. This got me thinking, what characterizes service? Is it not just a compilation of the fruits of the Spirit? Loving, having joy, having peace, being patient, being kind, doing good things, having faith in others, having a gentle attitude, and having the control over yourself to make it not about yourself. These are the things that make up service and love should be the greatest piece. The fruit of the spirit, through me expressed mainly in being a servant, result in a growth in a relationship.
I heard a story once of a married couple who had all but given up on their relationship and in a last ditch effort went to see her pastor. She expressed her pain and told the pastor how she wished for their to be some way other than divorce. The pastor told her to take one month and commit herself to serving her husband in every way she could, and then see how the relationship went. The wife went back and served her husband for in every way she could. After a month she came back to the pastor overjoyed, his proposal had fixed their marriage. I am not sure if the story itself is true but I know that the principle behind it is.
So the question is who do you want to grow in relationship with? Sadly I don't have enough time to serve every single person I meet, though I strive to, but for the sake of not wearing myself out physically, mentally, emotionally, and financially I need to be deliberate on who I serve. As an RA I serve the guys on my floor. I serve my friends, I hope to one day serve my wife, but most importantly I need to serve Jesus. I need to ask Him what he wants me to do to help. Don't misunderstand, Jesus does not need my help, but he lets me help so that it is a two-way relationship (not just me being served) and so that there is growth in our relationship. I challenge you, and myself, who is it that you wish to have a better relationship with? Who is your enemy right now? Serve them and look to see the growth in relationship, it's not an instant reward it takes time but it is worth it and we all need to be reminded of that from time to time.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Burnout
It is the middle of the semester, and I am wearied. As I was mixing the sound tonight for Pursuit, Northwest University's Monday night chapel service run by students, when I pondered the fact that I am burnt out on church services. I have noticed this for a good while now. I go to five church services a week and most of them I sit through twice. Why do I do it? Because I love it, but quite honestly I'm burnt out. The reason is, most likely by my own fault, I have not been connecting with the Holy Spirit within these church services. This is most likely due to the fact that during almost every church service I'm in I am helping out with running the sound board or working in some fashion. I am focused on doing a good job, one that pleases the Lord and not on getting my own refreshment from the service. I realize that most Christians today have only church services to spend time with God and be replenished by the Holy Spirit and so if, or more likely, when they get burnt out on church services they become distressed. But I have know myself and in knowing myself I know what spiritually refreshes me: personal time spent with my God and discussions about God, life, and the struggles we go through with my fellow believers.
When it comes to spending personal time with God there comes a problem: I'm lazy. I often don't spend daily time with God despite knowing the need I have for my own well-being to do so. I often and easily fall prey to the lie that I am too busy to spend time devoted to God. I tend to spend my time on meaningless things, like writing a blog, instead of spending time with my God. This is problem number one.
The second way I am spiritually refreshed is when I pour my heart out to others, or when they pour their heart out to me. When we as believers come together to share our struggles and to listen to the advice of friends, there is something wholesome in that. The problem is, we often don't have these types of encounters every day. We also shouldn't go looking to have these heart-to-heart conversations every day with every person, that would just be weird.
So what's the solution to burnout? I don't know, but knowing what gets you refreshed and taking time to practice these things definitely helps. If chapel three times a week, or church once a week is enough to get you refreshed, then embrace those times, cherish them but if you are burnt out on church, school, or anything; I encourage you to think of what refreshes you and develop discipline to do those things. I know for me that when I take time to be with God personally and/or when I have a heart-to-heart with a good friend that I am refreshed, and when I am refreshed I can enjoy those church services that were previously a drag.
I hope that my random thoughts weren't too in-cohesive for you and I hope that God can use them to help you avoid burnout.
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